Beautiful wreath you've got there Andy! That's awesome that they gave that to you!
Murf I think the entire thing with the Jews and the Christians revolves around the belief in whether or not Jesus is truly the Messiah. The Jews believe the Messiah is something that has not come yet, while Christians believe the Messiah was Jesus.
A good resource for learning about Judaism is a really cool website called Judaism 101. You can visit it here:
http://www.jewfaq.org/index.shtml I learned a lot from the different beliefs, to the different traditions and practices of a Jew. Because of my own ancestry, I took an interest in it to research it. Like a lot of religions though, there are some things I agree with, and some things I don't.
The really complicated part of Judaism I think, is the fact that it's a very cultural/heritage type of religion. Unlike Christianity which is freely spread among people who aren't Jewish, or Gentiles, most people who are Jewish are born into the religion, although a "formal" conversion process can happen if a Gentile wishes to become a Jew.
There's also a sect of Judaism that's really interesting...the Messianic Jews who are still Jews, but have decided that Jesus really is the Messiah, though some Jewish communities may outcast them for the belief. The Orthodox Jews look down upon this though. But according to a Messianic Rabbi I talked to, if a Jewish man marries a Non-Jewish woman, she becomes Jewish, and any offspring she has are Jewish. Even if the father is a non-Jew, any children a Jewish woman has will be Jews. According to this logic, that means I'd qualify as a full-Jew, but I'm afraid there are some people who would dispute this fact. I've grown up mostly in a Christian/Secular environment, but sometimes my Grandma would refer to something as Kosher or bring up a Jewish belief or Tradition. But she's very religious, and deeply ingrained in the Bible and the Christian religion. My Great-Grandfather was a very brave individual for wanting to marry a Gentile Christian woman, and convert to Christianity. He became a Messianic Jew. Now, my Grandma also said this...and I think you'd like this Murf. Anyone who becomes a Christian also becomes a Jew according to her belief, because anyone who accepts Jesus as their personal savior becomes adopted into the Abrahamic covenant with God.
Andy since your sister has married a Jewish Man, can you elaborate on this? (Also I laughed at your comment about the "bad Easter weekend" lol)
Now, I am not religious by any means and I practice neither the Christian faith, nor the Jewish faith. I do however, respect both religions and find the entire topic fascinating. Then again, I find just about any religious belief fascinating to learn about.
I do like the idea of lighting candles at least. Maybe just lighting a few candles is enough to pay homage to my Jewish Ancestry, since that's a practice of both Christmas and Hannukah. Still want to learn how to make some of that delicious food they make though.